We are players in an elaborate stage production that the Narcissist writes

The most important aspect of this abuse is how they objectify people and put them in a useful place to serve their every need. This can be anything from the person that is in a romantic relationship with them, friends, a co-worker, a minion to support the Narcissist’s lies, parents, and biological children – basically EVERYONE serves a purpose to keep that false mask firmly attached to the Narcissist’s head. We are players in an elaborate stage production that the Narcissist writes called “My Delusional Life of Lies.”

Reblogged from ‘After Narcissistic Abuse’.

After Narcissistic Abuse

The most important aspect of this abuse is how they objectify people and put them in a useful place to serve their every need. This can be anything from the person that is in a romantic relationship with them, friends, a co-worker, a minion to support the Narcissist’s lies, parents, and biological children – basically EVERYONE serves a purpose to keep that false mask firmly attached to the Narcissist’s head. We are players in an elaborate stage production that the Narcissist writes called “My Delusional Life of Lies.”

From my book: Greg Zaffuto – Author – From Charm to Harm and Everything Else in Between with a Narcissist

YES, we do all have our roles – some of us are primary roles, secondary roles and bit parts – but none of us are looked upon as anything more than a reflection of the Narcissist’s needs and we are used to…

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I haven't posted in a very long time. I've had no need or inclination to. I've no more to purge about my ex partner's treatment of me or his children. What he does is what he chooses to do. 'As within, so without'. I totally realise that i can't make him pay his debts - [...]